Who is the Program for?
The following questions have been designed to help decide whether this 6 week Transformational Life Coaching program is for you…
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Are you tired of feeling lonely?
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Have you been single for too long, or is the novelty of being single wearing thin?
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Are you struggling to meet someone new, or keep meeting people who are not right for you?
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Are you attracting people who trigger you – who bring up strong negative emotions and insecurities?
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Are you struggling to open up, and give someone a chance to get to know the real you?
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Are you petrified of letting your guard down, of making yourself vulnerable, and letting someone in?
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Have you been pining for, or still hurt or angry with, someone who is now firmly in your past?
If you have answered YES to at least 4 of these, continue with the following questions….
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Are you ready to dive deep and undertake a journey of self-discovery?
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Are you ready to understand why you have experienced the relationship patterns you have?
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Are you ready to break the cycle?
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Are you ready to heal that part of you that has been wounded for so long?
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Are you ready to let go of your past relationships and the hold they continue to have over you?
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Are you ready to attract a healthy and positive relationship, your perfect match, your soulmate?
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And finally…are you ready to put in the time, work, energy and commitment needed to transform this area of your life once and for all?!
If you answered YES to at least 8 of these questions in total, then this program is for YOU!!
The Struggles You Are Facing...
There is no denying it…letting go of past relationships can be a long and difficult process. Some people can stay stuck in the past for years, as they emotionally hold onto hurt and pain they inflicted or experienced, now etched into their memory and the body’s nervous system like a perpetual echo.
Living with this kind of emotional pain will always have a direct impact on mental health:
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For some it can create anger, bitterness and resentment and drain their energy.
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For others it can leave them stripped of their sense of self-worth and never feeling good enough.
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Some people suffer with the torture of rumination – mentally playing our scenes from their past over and over, which leaves them feeling low and depressed.
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And for many, being emotionally stuck in the past can leave them feeling hopeless, that nothing good in life awaits them, and they give up on love and happiness and all the wonderful things that come with experiencing a healthy, loving relationships.
Living in the past affects our ability to form new connections, maintain relationships, and function in healthy ways once new relationships have been established. This is not exclusive to romantic relationships, but can affect the relationships we have with our children, our parents, our friends, work colleagues etc also. Those who simply cannot face the weight and discomfort of their emotions, will often look to numb or distract their pain with external influences like food, alcohol, smoking, drugs, sex, gambling…all of which add another layer of complexity to existing emotional pain. But ignoring the pain the heart endures doesn’t make it go away, instead it lays dormant… When the heart is wounded, it doesn’t take much to trigger and re-open old wounds – a sound, a smell, something someone says, a visual reminder of the past. It’s only a matter of time before the pain comes flooding back and can consume us, masked as insecurity, anger, anxiety, sadness, fear. This pain is so intense that it has the power to take over our lives and sabotage anything good we may have. And it is this intensity which causes the heart to shut back down again to protect itself. While this pattern allows us to get back to some sort of normality and keep going in the short term, the original wound remains untreated and vulnerable to being triggered over and over again in future…and so the cycle continues. The only way to break the cycle…is to HEAL THE HEART!
The Science
Our heart is a powerful electro-magnetic organ which we are only just starting to understand. We know that the brain is a ‘Supercomputer’ with as much capacity for processing information as the most advanced technology. But it turns out the heart has its own intelligence. In fact, its neurological system and electromagnetic field are larger and more powerful than that of the brain. To find out more click HERE.
What does that mean?
Well, it means our hearts are mini geniuses!! Our hearts know things our rational conscious brains do not. To shut down our heart is like trying to live our lives as emotional vegetables! And to allow our hearts to remain wounded is like trying to live a healthy happy successful life with brain damage.
Our hearts are powerful organs which contain the secrets of our soul and life purpose. And love is the most powerful energy that exists in the universe, because it has the power to create and give life to things that can and cannot be seen – thoughts, memories, emotions, ideas. To allow this energy to flow is to live in alignment with who we are and what gives our life meaning.
Isn’t it time you healed your heart?
My Story & how the Program was Created…
This program was developed off the back of my own personal experience of healing my own heart. When the relationship with my son’s father disintegrated after just 18 months of being together, it took me a staggering 10 years to DO THE WORK needed to process my emotions, to understand my patterns, to heal the parts of me that were wounded, reprogram my negative thinking around relationships, overcome my sabotaging habits; 10 years to find the courage to let down my guard, surrender to my need for love, raise my energy to match the energy of what my heart wanted, and finally bring into my life my perfect match – my soulmate!
Looking back I realise that the reason it took me 10 years to let go and move on was my insistence that I could figure it all out on my own. I was after all a Social Worker at the time and capable of helping people through a plethora of challenging life issues. But I couldn’t do it for myself…few people can because our blind spots and lack of objectivity and perspective. In as valuable as my single years were to my learning and growth – I learnt how to create an amazing life for myself and my little boy –the process itself was heart-breaking, filled with tears and hopelessness and frustration and isolation. Nobody should have to spend 10 years alone! So to help others navigate this challenge, I put together the most fundamental pieces of work which helped me let go of the past and move forward, and created “Healing the Heart: Let Go of Past Relationships” - a 6 Week Personal Development Program for Emotional Healing, Freedom and Alignment with your Heart’s Desire. And I have been transforming people’s lives with it ever since!
The Solution...
“Healing Your Heart: Let Go of Past Relationships & Attract Your Soulmate”
A 6 Week Personal Development Program for Emotional Healing, Freedom& Alignment with your Heart’s Desire
This transformational life coaching program requires time, energy, focus, commitment, and specific steps to be taken as part of the healing and rebuilding process; because irrespective of the hurt you may have experienced in the past, the heart can be re-built stronger and wiser than ever before!
6 Week Program Itinerary:
Week 1: Clarity Around Your Desire – What You Actually Want & Why?
Week 2: Understanding What’s Holding You Back
Week 3: Replacing Your Old Program (Limiting Beliefs & Sabotaging Behaviours) with a New Empowering Program
Week 4: Learning Self-Love & Self-Forgiveness (Inner Child Work)
Week 5: Healing and Releasing the Pain of the Past to Achieve Emotional Freedom
Week 6: Start Attracting Your Ideal Partner and Soulmate by Raising Your Energy
Week by week I will personally take you through a powerful process of gaining awareness, releasing what doesn’t serve you, upgrading your mindset and raising your energy. I use a combination of conscious and subconscious tools and techniques from the world of Transformational Life Coaching to help heal wounds from the past and create the space needed to bring healing to your heart and raise your energetic vibration to attract more positive experiences into your life; whether it be inner peace, self-love, or an ideal partner/soulmate (depending on what you are ready for). The program is structured, yet adapted to your personal needs and preferences, to ensure you receive maximum healing, learning and growth from each session.
Testimonial:
Danisha, 39yrs - Lawyer from Dubai
“I have tried a few life coaches but haven’t connected with anyone as authentic and genuine as Nichola. Her energy and mindset are what attracted me to her program, and she delivered results that I didn’t think possible in a short amount of time! There will be tears, there will be laugh-out-loud moments, there will be deep thought-provoking moments; but there will also be so much healing, self-love, confidence and rays of light coming into you every day. She has left me feeling empowered, confident and loving every part of me and my life”.
The Benefits of Completing this Program
YOUR INTERNAL & EXTERNAL REALITY WILL CHANGE THROUGH THIS PROCESS!!!
This program is a journey of self-discovery. It requires commitment, time and focus, but the rewards are limitless and will be felt across all sections of your life, not just your romantic relationships!
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You will stop living in the past, procrastinating, and obsessing over what you cannot change.
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You will no longer feel the need to keep punishing yourself for what you did and didn’t do and learn how to develop self-love, self-acceptance and nurture compassion and forgiveness for yourself.
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You will find closure in past relationship experiences that you haven’t been able to let go of, and create space for other amazing connections and experiences to come into your life.
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You will recognise the patterns you have been repeating and learn how to break the cycle, saving yourself years of heartache.
5. You will develop self-awareness as to what is actually holding you back, identify ways to overcome these blocks, and finally start moving forward. 6.You will build confidence as you reframe difficult past experiences and learn how to heal your heart and the wounds of your past. 7.You will start to focus on what you want and value and get excited about what will come into your life. 8.You will change what you are telling yourself and what you are doing, and start to align your thoughts, emotions and actions with what you want to be experiencing. 9.You will recognise the value of having the time to focus on yourself and healing the past, and release resistance/discomfort associated with being single. 10.You will start to recognise just how amazing you are, what you bring to the table, and what you need to focus on in order to realise you already are ‘the ultimate catch’! 11.You will start to believe in your self-worth, and get clear on what you are/are not prepared to accept in any relationship. 12.You will develop a newfound respect for yourself and trust in your own ability to overcome difficult experiences and emotions, boosting your resilience! 13.You will raise your standards around the type of people you allow into your life and develop healthy boundaries to keep you safe and feeling appreciated and respected. 14.You will recognise what you truly value and what matters to you in living a happy life. 15.You will save yourself time and the hassle of dating people who do not or cannot meet your needs. 16.You will recognise just how amazing life can be with or without a relationship. 17.You will learn how to raise your energy so that you can tap into the frequency of love, whether you are in a romantic relationship or not. 18.You will start to attract people into your life who are aligned with your upgraded mindset and energy. 19.You will begin to attract your perfect partner into your life, to experience the wholeness that can only be achieved with peace, love and connection. 20.You will begin to experience life with greater ease, flow and in alignment with who we really are.
Disclaimer...
1. This program is not for the faint hearted! You will need to open yourself up emotionally, allow yourself to be vulnerable, face your metaphorical demons and release what no longer serves you. With over 20 years’ experience in helping people from all walks of life, develop their self-awareness, release emotions, overcome hurdles, build their resilience and move forward to transform their lives (and consequently the lives of the people around them) I am both skilled and equipped to help you navigate the minefield that is your personal human experience, including your tears.
2. You will be encouraged to complete Home Practice exercises between sessions in order to fast-track your learning, healing, growth and transform your experiences. This can be tricky especially when we lead busy lives, but even making 15mins available to work on ourselves all stacks up over time. This program is an investment in your health and happiness. If it’s important you’ll make the time, if it’s not you’ll make excuses, and little will change. 3. It is recommended that those completing the Healing the Heart program remain single for the duration of the 6 weeks as we work through this powerful process. Those dating while undertaking the program are likely to experience issues in their relationships which will then need to take priority in sessions. This means it will take longer to navigate through all the material needed to ensure you align with a healed, healthy relationship (thanks to having to clear up the mess from an existing toxic one). 4. In order to attract love into our lives we need to live a life we love…this is the universal law of attraction. And if we are not loving a life we love, we need to be prepared for change, for letting go of the old stories we tell ourselves, and be open to creating a new story - one of healing, learning, awareness, growth. If you want to stay exactly as you are, do not change anything and hold onto your excuses.
But...if you are ready for something new, something expansive, something liberating and something that will transform your life, then I invite you to request a FREE consultation Today and begin your journey to Emotional Healing, Freedom and Alignment with your Heart’s Desire!
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What's Included?
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30min Discovery Call to explore suitability and answer any questions before the program begins.
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6 X 90min one to one Transformational Life Coaching sessions held via Zoom or WhatsApp (flexible dates and times available).
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Personalised session summaries, resources, and recordings to download and refer back to.
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E-mail/text support between session to keep you on track.
Total Investment....£480
£80 per session PAYG)
Testimonial: John, 55yrs, Insurance CEO from Hertfordshire, UK
“I completed the Let Go of Past Relationships & Attract Your Soulmate coaching programme with Nichola, after struggling for months following a difficult break up. It helped me recognise the patterns I was repeating and why and helped me get clear on what I value and actually want to bring into my life. I feel the Inner Child work was especially valuable in dealing with past disappointments and traumas and has helped me deal with challenges so much better now than I did before.
I feel I have come on leaps and bounds since doing the course. Mentally and emotionally, I am in a very different place now to where I was when the work started. I learnt I can have a very different experience of life depending on my choices and attitude, so life feels so much better now despite the fact that little has actually changed. I am in a very peaceful place these days on the back of such a difficult relationship history. I would highly recommend this course – it has the power to change your life”.
About Me...
Hello my name is Nichola Pyrkos
" I am a Transformational Life Coach & Mindfulness Facilitator, a Psychology and Social Work graduate, and Senior Member on the Accredited Counsellors, Coaches, Psychotherapists and Hypnotherapists (ACCPH) register.
My mission is to empower individuals to step into their power, to consciously create their reality, and develop the resilience necessary to navigate life's inevitable difficulties and challenges. I believe every person has the innate ability to shape their own destiny and make a positive contribution to humanity, and the work I deliver is the gateway to this experience".
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